Dec. 31, 1861. Henry & George went to town Lewis came over with a note from Tina. In the afternoon Willie & I rode to Clark’s & spent the afternoon. Tina had the toothache.
[Octavia Stephens to Winston Stephens]
Dec 31st 1861
My own dear Husband
I was mighty glad to receive a letter from you this week for it seemed a coon's age since I had seen or heard from you. I miss you more every time you go away; the weeks get longer, I dont get used to it one bit, why did Old Lincoln keep Mason & Slidell a little longer & let England challenge him, & let us have peace. oh my hopes were so much raised when I heard that they were demanded & were not going to be given up, & that they would probably have a war, but as usual my hopes were blasted. I suppose you have received a letter from me by this time, you spoke of not hearing from me, you must remember that I had had no chance. from something you said in your letter this week about “my being alarmed about what you wrote in your last.” I suppose that you wrote to me last week, and I did not get itl I am sorry you had such a dull Christmas, seems to me I have missed you more than ever since the boys have been here. I am afraid you will be kept at Fernandina a long time & can not afford to come home often. I suppose it will cost 12 or 15 dollars. Willie says you might take two weeks in two months and then you would be able to stay a decent time with us, but that seems a long time between visits, but I suppose I would then be much better off than some folks, and may thank my stars if I see you that often. oh well I will hope again that something will turn up or change the order of things. I am sorry you are disappointed in the sum of your pay; I feared it would be so, & Willie told me of it after he came, every one must go for patriotism. with so little I dont see how we can come out straight as you say, and I have been thinking lately of your horse business, and think worse & worse of it. the boys went to see the horses when in Pilaka & said “Pet” was a little sick I suppose you left the horse doctor with them, as I heard that eleven men were left with them.
I suppose from your telling me to keep the darkie boys home, that you wrote me about some insurrection or some such thing, please tell me again. I dont like this way of our letters crossing each other, and having to wait two weeks for an answer to any question.
We have not had a very merry time but very quiet. Willie is much more quiet than he used to be, I think him much changed.
So you think the women worth looking at, perhaps by being in the service a good many will learn to appreciate their wives, you too of course, do you think you appreciate your good (for nothing) little wife, never mind you cant get one who would appreciate you more. just now I heard a rustling & looked up and Rosa was sitting straight up in her crib, I went & laid her down & turned her over and she went right to sleep without moving any more. when we tell her to call Pa Pa she generally says "Pa Pa don" she is learning to say "Ma Ma peas Ma'am" when she wants to nurse, & says "ide" for ride, Tum for Tom & pire for fire when Tom comes in the morning. she has become quite familiar with Willie. he and Davis take a great deal of notice of her and seem to think a great deal of her. We rode out to the Pond the other day & Willie & Rosa amused themselves or each other by making faces, so for a day or two every time she would look at Willie she would make all kinds of faces. today she saw me washing some of her potatoe off of the beaureau and she took her nightgown off the horse & a napkin and went to scrubbing the cricket as busily as possible. Well I think I have strung out pretty long about her, but I guess you like to hear about her.
I will not say anything of Mr Simmons as Clark (alias Tina) has written. I am sorry that the mill is to be a “bust” up, but Burrel says he dont care so much, for he will be put back, so much with the crop. he seems very industrious & trying hard to do his duty, but is greatly troubled about Jane. we have not heard from Mrs Bradley yet. Willie will go to the office in Pilatka again. we heard the other day that Mrs Bradley’s Amos was drowned off of a pole boat going to Jacksonville for things for a wedding for Francis.
I am glad you had some good things for Christmas, I often thought of you & wished to send you something. Tina had a fine dinner on Christmas. Willie & I rode over to Clark's this afternoon, Tina had the toothache. she sent over your note this morning. I asked Clark before I got your letter to get me a barrel of syrup as he was going to get one & I thought you would take it, but Mr Tyner has risen again to 65 cts. Davis says it is a dollar a gallon in Jacksonville.
When did you tell me to bed the potatoes? the Hayties are decaying too. Our baby seems very restless to night. I hope it will prove to be only a tooth coming, she is not very fretful and has no signs of fever. I have not had any return of the chill & fever since the night before you left.
I guess I must close, every one else is either in bed or going there. this is a little better than the scrawl I sent last week. I have been writing to Julie too. Oh I hear that Mr Tydings & Lou are to be in Jacksonville this year. Mother sends love and wishes you a "Happy New Year" & hopes the next New Years night you will be seated at your fireside, & your store houses & barns full.
Good night my darling may the Lord grant Mother's wish.
Ever affectionately
Your Wife.
I have not sent the shirt I thought it would cost as much as having some done up, have the calico ones washed.
[Rebecca Bryant to Davis Bryant]
Rose Cottage Dec 31, 1861
My dear Davis,
I send you herewith a daguerreotype of your Father, which was taken in the Autumn of /45 and was then considered a good likeness ‑ Both Tivie and I have good ones, taken at a later period and I thought you would rather have this than none. The socks may do for a while to save Mrs Maxey a few stitches. I intend writing her a few words to inclose with this before Willie leaves, expressing my thanks for her kindness.
This is the last day of 1861 ‑ where shall we all be at the close of the next? Echo answers where! I hope you will not be disappointed in your visit to Mulberry Grove tomorrow ‑ A Happy New year to Mrs Reed & family and also to Mrs Foster and hers. Your visit here affords us pleasant reminiscences and was I suppose a source of more gratification to us, than to you, as your stay was so very short in comparison with the trouble and expense you had in coming.
I hope Willie has enjoyed his and think he has in a quiet way. Tivie sends much love and hopes you have recd. a letter which Winston mentions having written to you, by Henry Hopkins, on the 26th. He wrote Tivie the same evening, was well and apparently cheerful.
Write me next year, and accept much love from
Mother
Tivie says you must go and see Loulie as soon as she arrives and tell her we must have a visit from her this Winter certain. We depend on seeing the two babies together. Give much love from both of us.
[Willie Bryant to Winston Stephens]
Rose Cottage Dec last 1861.
Dear Winston,
I have been here now 9 days enjoying the hospitalities of yr home, & have had a good time of it, but regret very much that you have not been here, as I counted so much on it; I was greatly disappointed on my arrival at J'vlle to learn how I had missed you, & that you had been ordered to Fernandina; & I expect if you could get off one of my old fashioned "swears" it would do you good, at the arrangement; but as you have left the "old lady" so well provided for yr mind should be as easy as any husband away from a young wife. I am glad to see you so independent of Old abe; these times especially are farmers to be envied.
I have knocked around but little, powder & shot being so scarce, & have spent most of the time with the women & children, but havn't entirely succeeded in captivating yr lovely daughter; she is hard to win, & very coquettish, I must say, & I think I am as usual the most struck of the two; she's a great girl, certain! I have been over to Welaka several times & it makes me sad to see the place; I find Gardner about King, or trying to be; I have tried him for money, or to get a chance to cuss him, but of course it was no go;
I think I would like to take the contract of "cleaning out" Welaka now, & if I should commence I would not leave many. The "old lady" will of course give you all of family matters & general news, & I think from all the thoughts & wishes she expresses concerning you, you will get a grown person's dose of a letter.
O, yr shot gun came up by the boat yesterday & is in the house.
An old friend of our, & one of my mess, is now in Fernandina, whom perhaps you wd like to know; he was detailed from our company as telegraphic operator, he is not yr style but is a very intelligent & clever fellow; his name is Hatch. If you remain at F- & I hear a chance to get a job to go there, I will. I dont much apprehend an attack on F’da now; they must kow it would not pay; they would have a big fight on their hands at least; as for our post, I think we are unthought of, & despair of having a chance to “spread” myself there & truly wish I was somewhere else; if it were not for an alarm once in awhile I don’t know what we would have to keep us alive.
I don't know what to think of the effect of this Mason & Slidell affair now it has taken this turn, & don't care much; if I can only be pd off now & then I am willing to "let things riss" awhile longer, I have recd but one mo's pay yet for all my services.
Well, good bye! If the Yankees come attend to them; I feel whatever may happen to us that "Divine Providence & Davis" will take care of the folks.
Yrs alway
Willie