Nov. 5, 1861. Tina & Minnie spent the day with us. Ben had a chill. I wrote to Winston in the evening.
[Octavia Stephens to Winston Stephens]
Nov 5, 1861
My dear Husband
I wonder if you have received my little scrawl and are two feet deep in your papers to night. I took great pleasure in sending them, knowing you are so fond of them, although I make such a fuss about your reading them at home, but would you not like to look in upon us to night and see how we do without you? & what we are doing? Well I can tell you what we are doing now. we have a nice cheerful fire with the horse in front of it drying Rosa's socks &c, and a table out in the middle of the room & Mother sitting opposite me writing. Henry & George sitting a little to one side studying, poor Ben in bed where he has had fever this afternoon. Rosa asleep, now if you were only here our picture would be complete, though we would rather have Ben with us too. As for getting along, we do that pretty well but I assure you I miss you sadly, but I can not help thinking that you will be home soon to stay. I can not realize that this is only the beginning of worse. Rosa has not yet forgotten how to say Pa Pa, though she is too often reminded to forget how to say it, if she does not forget to whom it applies. The first night you were away when I took her into bed Mother had not yet got in and she looked all around and kept calling for Pa Pa and made me feel right sad, she has been very cross for two or three days and nights, I am quite certain that there is another tooth coming, she has been better today, and slept quite well last night. just as I finished that sentence she awoke, I took her up & she went right to sleep again. I guess you think those folks sit up late & sleep late & every thing goes on wrong, all have been behind [the] hands in the morning but are getting better, it was not our fault, & this morning I called the negroes a little before six, and told them they must get smarter.
Burrel began digging potatoes after dinner yesterday. I do not know how near done they are, he said he wanted to get the hogs in & get those from town before he went on the Coast, which will be Friday morning, but I think he will not, for Clark wants him to come over Wednesday night to help him kill his beef early Thursday morning. Tina spent to day with us. I had beef enough for half ration, & we are intirely out of meat, have had chicken for dinner twice, no fish to be caught by any body. The boys started before breakfast the other morning for the Ocklawaha & did not return until afternoon, & got a mud fish & cat. I one little squirrel & a brim. I assure you they came back disheartened and hungry, for they carried four “chokers” for their breakfast which they roasted Sunday night, the tide is so high that no one catches any fish.
Last Saturday night Gardners negroes took the rounds, one came here (early in the eve) one at Clarks & two at one of the Priests, for potatoes. Burrel had been to Clark's & saw the fresh track in the road & got over in the patch (by the lot) & sure enough they had grabbed the best hills of three rows. I sent the measure to Mr Allen, & I hear he has found out who it was, but I do not know yet of the punishment, the one that went into Tina's chicken house has been laid up a week, one of them came here Sunday morning but Burrel made him leave and Sarah says he took a good look around before he left.
Joe had a chill to day the same time that Ben had his, & Sarah says Rachael had one yesterday. I have some stew all ready for the next. the cotton is very thin & buggy. I hear that the wild sow is becoming tame. the mules have not yet given trouble, but this afternoon they and Charles jumped the fence & went to Clark's but Mose was soon behind them. Well my darling I must say good night, it is nine o'clock half an hour past our putting up time & Mother says I must not write any more, for I have been saying yes'm only one more sentence. Good night. God bless you.
Well here I am again after a very good nights rest, I hope you slept as comfortable, we wished when we got into bed that you had one as comfortable, Rosa slept very well & woke up very good natured, but I tell you what we had a time of it after breakfast, thank gracious she is asleep now, you have no idea how she has changed in behaviour, I guess you will think, oh yes its her not the baby, but I try all kinds of ways with her, but of no avail, you had better come home and take care of her.
You do not know how relieved I felt when I heard that you had exchanged your horse, nor how frightened I was when you were on that hateful little thing, I think if you ever did a foolish thing, you did it when you got that pony. Tina said yesterday that you wrote Clark that you hoped I would get the three notes you sent me to have them attended to before Wednesday, I cant think which you mean unless you mean Mothers three letters from the boys. Tina says tell Mr Parker that his wife & grandchild have been very sick, the latter is still & that they are in a state of starvation, he had better come home, she Mrs P went begging to Tina for a few potatoes & was going to Mrs Hopkins the next day. Mr Smith did not send me the oil, Henry is going to carry the letters, & will ask him about it.
Will you please try and get me four knitting needles a size smaller than the piece I send? Well Mother has finished her letter so I must close & let Henry go. I believe I have told you all I had to say particularly. I shall not expect you until next Monday, but hope you may come before. no one heard from Ma this week. Ben is up & sitting here reading, Toady has missed his chill. Rosa is still asleep so I will not wake her to send you a kiss, Mother sends her love, I wont send mine, for you have it already, provided you are a "good boy".
Very affectionately
Your Wife
I think you were nice to take all the envelopes off with you.
[Rebecca Bryant to Davis Bryant]
Nov 5, 1861
My dear Davis,
Your two acceptable favors and the knives, came safely to hand yesterday morning and I thank you for your promptness. I did not intend to make you pay freight on the knives, but thought if you were coming to Palatka you could hand them to Winston, who expected to return here for a few days after he was mustered into service.
I am rejoiced that you are not going to join any company. It really made me feel miserably to think of your being so far from all of us, in case of sickness or accident ‑ It is bad enough to have Willie where he is, and while you remain in Jacksonville he has frequent communication with you ‑ if you left, we would seem to be more widely scattered with no connecting link. I think Winston will feel disappointed, as he seemed desirous to have you accept the office of Sergeant, but no doubt he will think you judged right, under the circumstances. I hope he will be as well satisfied as he anticipates, and that their head quarters will be at St. Augustine. Welaka looked forlorn enough, I assure you, the morning I arrived and every thing here appeared different from what it ever did before, but now the negroes are all up again, we begin to get straight and I feel more reconciled, more at home than at first. Henry has killed a few squirrels, but no one has had any luck in fishing here lately, they say the tide has been too high. The boys and Ben Gaines went up the Ochlawaha yesterday morng. before breakfast and did not return until 3 o’clk, but caught only cat-fish. Today I have commenced attending to their studies, which they dislike now as they have run wild so long, but think they will soon get into the way of studying and will enjoy their play the more. It was necessary to do something to keep them from such constant and familiar intercourse with the negroes. Ben Gaines had a chill to-day and has fever to-night, I should not be surprised if the boys had a touch of it soon, they are now in fine health however.
Tivie is writing Winston, we have made a resolution not to sit up later than nine o'clk, as it is necessary that we shd. rise early or the negroes take advantage. I must bid you good night and add a line or two in the morning.
Wednesday A.M.
Good morning my dear Davis, I hope you feel as well as I do this morng. I am glad you are having some social gathering to enliven you. Hope Mrs Maxey will have regained her spirits by the time this reaches you. Give my lover to her and say I was rather homesick at first but find the best antidote is plenty of occupation, which I know she always has. Ask her to let me know what the prospect is of her sister’s being with her this winter.
Henry wishes you to tell Charley Hewitt when you see him that he intends writing to him soon.
You would be much amused to see Rosa trotting about and trying to imitate the actions of her elders, she speaks two or three words very plainly and appears to understand almost everything that is said to her.
I hope Mrs Reed and her family are well now, remember me affectionately to them and to Mrs Foster and Becca. I want to write a few lines to Willie and must bid you adieu for the present. With much love
Mother
Remind “Miss Maggie” of her promise to write to me.
Nov. 6, 1861. Henry carried the letter to town in the morning.
Nov. 7, 1861. In the afternoon Mother Henry and I went over to the office to carry Mrs Parker some potatoes &c came home by Tina’s.
Nov. 8, 1861. Burrel & Henry started at daylight to go down on the Coast fishing. Mr Parker came from Pilatka but did not bring me anything from Winston.
Nov. 9, 1861. [no entry]